My Parenting Strategies- Where do they come from?

Frogness

My parenting strategies are an eclectic mix of elements  that I have learned.   I feel  that I am an old soul and knew  many things from previous incarnations.   I was always coming up with "wise" ways of looking at the world and as a result, usually ahead of my time.

The Male Brain

Frog Mover

My husband and I raised two daughters with a lot of help from family,  friends and books. We now have a grandson and at 15 months, he is already quite different from our daughters. He is moving non stop. The other day in nursery, he began to run before he could walk steadily.  He makes sure that he waves to the staff before he leaves everyday. He is awesome.

Dad's- Where are they?

Interesting article in the May/June issue of the Scientific American Mind titled Where's Dad by Paul Raeburn.  For many years, it has been the chronic habit to blame Mom's for all of  our children's difficult behaviors. Guess what, there is new research that states that an engaged Dad whether, living at home or not, is a critical factor to their daughter's mental health.

Child Led Parenting- A New Way to Understand Parenting

Frogness

When we remember who we were as children, we remember that we had amazing ideas about how the world would work best. I was convinced that truth telling was important, my sister Robin strongly that being self sustainable through farming was the way and another friend talked about creative expression. We were often blocked in these ideas and  buried them.

Tapping for Kids

frog nap

You may have seen adults doing strange things like tapping on different parts of their face and body. This strange ritual  called Tapping helps to create a more relaxed state. We can also  teach our children this tapping routine so that they can help themselves to deal with tough emotions of  anger,  sadness and other emotions very quickly. It is an easy technique to learn and can be used over and over again. Please check out the following youtube video.

Tapping for Kids.

Smell The Roses

Herb Frog

We have forgotten to smell the roses and sit in the sun. There are so many warnings about the  challenges of being outside that we have chosen to stay inside. Of course, our children have taken our lead. They sit inside with their X Boxes, i phones and i pads and we complain about how sedentary they are. It is important for us to guide them in  developing habits of going outside for fun and healing.

The Success Sandwich- simple parenting strategy

Frog Talk

Sometimes, we have to tell our kids things that they do not want to hear. No matter what age we are, we don't like "critical" feedback. One helpful strategy is the Success Sandwich. I googled the term on line and  found links to  sandwich and sub shops.So  I don't really know where the term originated however I do know how it works. These are the  three parts to the strategy.